Monthly Archives: January 2013

Improving on “I forgive you”

Hi, friends. I hope this post finds you well. As for me, the quest for understanding continues, and I’m not sure where it’s going to lead. All I am certain of is that something seems to be shifting. Somehow I … Continue reading

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Stream of Consciousness Sunday: Getting ‘there’

Stream of Consciousness Sunday goes promptless again this week, and Jana has invited us to link our favourite posts of the week. I’ve written fresh, but not in five minutes. 🙂      Hi, friends. I hope this post finds … Continue reading

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Choosing my words for 2013

Hi, friends. I hope this post finds you well. Over the past few weeks in the blogosphere, I have read posts by others in which they have remarked on the words they have chosen to focus on this year. Although … Continue reading

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Facing and resisting

Hi, friends. I hope this post finds you well. Following Tuesday’s anniversary, I have thrown myself into  grief work. Only by looking at what I had written on the A3 pages did I realise that I haven’t really dealt with … Continue reading

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Mapping my journey

Hi, friends. I hope this post finds you well. Tuesday, 15th January 2013 marked the second anniversary of Kim’s death. I did something I’ve meant to do for a while and began to take stock of everything. ‘Taking stock’ has … Continue reading

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Learning to acknowledge pre-anniversary grief

Hi, friends. I hope this post finds you well. Once again this week, I was struck by how long a shadow anniversaries can still cast. Intellectually and emotionally, I would like to believe I am detached from what happened to … Continue reading

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Musings on a looming anniversary

Well I just got back from hell And I guess to tell the truth I’ve been mad at everyone Including God and you When you can’t find no-one to blame You just blame yourself And I know I’ll never be … Continue reading

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