Category Archives: Kim

The Confusion of Missing You

Kim’s on my mind tonight for some reason…so I’ve written another poem. Seems to be the only way I can put this into words. Here goes. The Confusion of Missing You It confounds me still The way you left this … Continue reading

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NaBloPoMo: Detachment

Lately, I’ve been thinking about Kim again in earnest. Unfortunately, it’s not yet become the positive thinking that I would be able to tolerate. (I don’t yearn for it in the same way as I do for positive thinking about … Continue reading

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Cyberloss, grief, memories and choices

Have you decided what to do with your memories? Even five years after Chris’ passing, I’m  still in the process of working out what to do with some of them. The experience of knowing Kim, and what she went through, … Continue reading

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NaBloPoMo: Endless [plus Kim's birthday "tribute"]

Today ought to be Kim’s 32nd birthday. Well, it is. The problem with it is that she’s not here for it. I spend a lot of my time now trying not to even think about her, and somehow I think … Continue reading

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Could these be the sweetest words in the world?

Hello, friends. At last it is over. I have finally deleted the MySpace account. There is an enormous sense of relief flooding through me at this time. I sent the request five days ago, for the second time. I have … Continue reading

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Finally, some action!

Hi, folks. I’m pleased to report that further to my earlier post, the account has now been scheduled for deletion. I’m thrilled at the prospect of  closing that very painful chapter in my journey with Kim. It’s a powerful symbol, … Continue reading

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The emails have been dealt with

Hello, my friends. In the barrage of posts this week, I seem to have forgotten the most important personal achievement that I was going to post about. On Tuesday I found the strength necessary to deal with the emails that … Continue reading

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UK Eating Disorder Awareness Week 2012

Hi, folks. It came to my attention today via a post on a friend’s Facebook wall that this week is Eating Disorder Awareness Week in the UK. I’m not going to post much about it, for obvious reasons, but I … Continue reading

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Do we know what we’ve got whilst we have it?

              Hi, folks. Just thought I’d throw this one out there, because I caught myself pondering this question a few minutes ago. Everybody says ‘You don’t know what you’ve got ’til it’s gone.’ I’m … Continue reading

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In gratitude for 3,500 views.

Image from http://milaninternationalschool.files.wordpress.com/2010/12/thank-you-multilingual.jpg?w=455   Hello, friends. I am writing this in advance of the milestone, as at the time of writing, my stat counter shows 3,499 visitors to the blog. I recognise that some of those visitors have been spam … Continue reading

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