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Monthly Archives: January 2012
Blogging the unbloggable
Hi, folks. Here’s hoping this post finds you all well. Gary Allan’s singing in my headphones as I write this, all about ‘putting memories away’. I can’t even start to think about that today. For some reason I’m stumped and … Continue reading
Posted in coping-with-grief, Kim, original-stuff, triggers
Tagged Anorexia nervosa, commemoration, Grief Loss and Bereavement, Kim, online loss, original-stuff
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The blessing of those who listen
Hi, folks. I hope this post finds you all well. I seem to be experiencing a period of emotional equilibrium, which I value in the pendulum of this experience of grief. I know that I am blessed in that I … Continue reading
Posted in commemoration, coping strategies, happenings, memories, recovery
Tagged Chris, Grief Loss and Bereavement, Kim, online loss, triggers
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Jumped by fate.
Today’s been a mixed bag…I didn’t think I would end up posting, because I didn’t think I’d need to. Yesterday was not a great day, in terms of trying to wrestle with my own thoughts and feelings about Kim. So, … Continue reading
Posted in anniversaries, Chris, commemoration, coping strategies, memories
Tagged Chris, Grief Loss and Bereavement, happenings, online loss, Spanish
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Love Sorrow – Mary Oliver
I found this originally at alive and mortal: http://expressive-arts.blogspot.com/2012/01/love-sorrow-poem-by-mary-oliver.html I hope the poem can bring some comfort to you as you deal with the various implications of your different losses, and yet they are similar…we all walk the path … Continue reading
Posted in Chris, coping strategies, coping-with-grief, Kim, others' work, poetry
Tagged coping, Grief Loss and Bereavement, online loss, others-work, poetry
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Stuck: pure and simple
This is a strange place to be, much like in my earlier ‘Void’ posts. I’m not feeling anything particularly alarming, other than not feeling anything. I’m half proud of myself, half surprised and filled with awe that I’m actually working … Continue reading
Posted in coping-with-grief, emotion, flashbacks, Kim, memories, online loss issues, triggers
Tagged Anorexia nervosa, coping, Email, Grief Loss and Bereavement, Kim, triggers
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A sweet new understanding
Hi, folks. Hope this post finds you all well. I am basking in the light of a new understanding after watching a television programme I taped last night. This particular programme followed television presenter Kate Thornton as she retraced the … Continue reading
Posted in anorexia, coping-with-grief, Kim, on TV, others' work
Tagged Grief Loss and Bereavement, kate thornton, Mental Health, online loss, others-work, TV
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Cyberloss and Free Advice Day
I read about Free Advice Day over at Mel’s blog ‘Stirrup Queens’. I know it’s not something that regular readers would expect me to join in with, but I think it’s worth doing something for. The aim of it is … Continue reading
Posted in cyberloss, emotion, support
Tagged cyberloss, Free Advice Day, Grief Loss and Bereavement, online loss
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False start (or four down, loads to go)
I’m making very slow progress with these damn emails. I still feel like it’s better to actually deal with them than hoard them and pretend that they don’t exist. (I know that’s a contradiction, but it refers to having them … Continue reading
Posted in coping-with-grief, flashbacks, Kim, triggers
Tagged coping, flashbacks, Grief Loss and Bereavement, Kim, online loss, triggers
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And so it begins….dealing with emails
Hi, folks. I hope this post finds you well. I didn’t expect to write another blog post today, but I thought I’d better do something which was actually worthwhile with the blog today. OK, why I’m writing again is because … Continue reading
Posted in coping-with-grief, Kim, online loss issues, triggers
Tagged Email, Emotion, Grief Loss and Bereavement, Kim, triggers
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One year gone by…
I feel this in a red mist at the moment, so there will be little lavished praise. I’m still very much working on processing it without the anger. The fact remains that one year ago at the moment that this … Continue reading
Posted in anniversaries, anorexia, coping-with-grief, Kim
Tagged anniversaries, Anorexia nervosa, Grief Loss and Bereavement, Kim, tribute
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