Monthly Archives: May 2011

Trying to find the source of a St. Augustine quote

Posted on May 31, 2011 by

I may have posted about this before, but can’t really remember doing so. A while back, I was privileged to be sent a photograph of the Order of Service from my dear friend Chris’ memorial. On the back of the order … Continue reading →

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Doing everything I can to avoid thinking about it

Posted on May 30, 2011 by

Hence the silence. I haven’t made any further progress with the emails, but have been debating how I’m going to deal with a request from Kim’s mum for any new songs I’ve written. The problem with this is that any … Continue reading →

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Anger, always anger…

Posted on May 25, 2011 by

Why on earth is it that when I think of Kim, it’s very seldom a loving thought now? When she was here, I often thought lovingly of her, prayerfully of her. (I’ve written before about faith and grief, and for reference, … Continue reading →

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Cruel parallels [warning: could offend/trigger]

Posted on May 23, 2011 by

I find myself thinking this morning about something I’ve usually managed to bat away. Even with Jeff Bridges’ “Fallin’ and Flyin’” playing in the background, the thoughts still crowd in. I ought to explain myself. I heard of Kim’s passing … Continue reading →

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Versatile Blogger award? Wow!

Posted on May 22, 2011 by

Hey, folks. I’ve just been awarded the Versatile Blogger award by New Year Mum. It’s an honour that a niche blog like Navigating Cyberloss would even be considered for such a thing. I’m gonna reciprocate the best way I know … Continue reading →

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Have I really done everything possible?

Posted on May 20, 2011 by

Doctor, my eyes have seen the years And the slow parade of fears, Without crying Now I want to understand I have done all that I could To see the evil and the good without hiding You must help me … Continue reading →

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Origami and grief work

Posted on May 18, 2011 by

I have to say, I’ve been doing more of the former, so that I don’t have to do the latter. Seems to be a question of ‘Three cranes a day keeps the demons away.’ The fact is, when I’m thinking … Continue reading →

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Fighting for custody because of fighting cancer- what gives?

Posted on May 12, 2011 by

I’m loath to call this a break in what the blog usually provides. It is, but it isn’t. I only read about this in the national news today, and I wanted to comment on it (read register my utter disgust) … Continue reading →

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Thoughts resulting from insomnia

Posted on May 10, 2011 by

(Listening to Ripple again as I write this – please excuse any inaccuracies, as this is from my brain after little/no sleep) I keep turning the damn situation over in my head. Doing the square peg, round hole thing – as … Continue reading →

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Different shades of ‘grrr’

Posted on May 8, 2011 by

I find myself still wondering how on earth this situation came to be. I don’t know enough about anorexia, or even really enough about Kim to make any kind of intelligent guess. I’d like to know more, but all I seem … Continue reading →

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